What to Wear to Your Boudoir Shoot: A Down-to-Earth Guide

First things first: boudoir isn’t about the clothes. It’s about how you feel in them—confident, gorgeous, and unapologetically you. That said, I know the idea of picking out outfits can feel a little overwhelming. Don’t worry, I’ve got you covered (well, figuratively… since we’re talking about lingerie here). Let’s break it down, step by step, with a sprinkle of humor to keep things light.

1. Start with what you love

Take a peek in your closet or drawers. Is there something you already own that makes you feel like a rockstar? Maybe it’s your favorite lace bralette, that satin slip dress you’ve been saving, or even your partner’s oversized button-up shirt. Boudoir doesn’t have to mean shopping spree—it’s all about embracing what you feel good in.

2. Keep it simple

You don’t need a closet full of elaborate pieces to make your photos stunning. A classic black bra and panty set can be just as jaw-dropping as intricate lingerie. Bonus points if it fits you comfortably and you don’t have to wrestle with it like a boa constrictor mid-shoot.

3. Layer it up

Layers add a little mystery and give you some variety in your shots. Think sheer robes, slouchy sweaters, thigh-high stockings, or even a leather jacket if you’re feeling bold. Layers = options, and options are always a good thing.

4. Don’t forget accessories

Statement jewelry, garter belts, or even your favorite heels can elevate your look. That said, if the thought of strapping yourself into stilettos makes you break out in a cold sweat, skip ‘em. Bare feet are just as stunning (and way comfier).

5. Comfort is key

This one’s important, so listen up: if it doesn’t fit or it feels scratchy, it’s not worth it. You’ll look your best when you feel your best. If you’re constantly adjusting straps or holding your breath to keep something in place, it’s not going to vibe. Let’s make comfort sexy again, shall we?

6. Bring options

Not sure what’ll work? Bring a few different outfits to your session! I’m here to help you decide what’ll photograph best. Think of me as your boudoir cheerleader and stylist rolled into one. We’ll figure it out together.

7. When in doubt, go natural

Sometimes, less is more. A cozy sheet, a simple nude bodysuit, or even just your skin can create the most stunning and timeless photos. You don’t have to go all-out to look incredible—you already are.

8. Avoid these common pitfalls

• Tiny patterns: They can look busy in photos. Solid colors or larger patterns tend to work better.

• Neon colors: They can clash with lighting and skin tones. Stick to more neutral or jewel tones.

• Ill-fitting pieces: If something’s too tight or too loose, it’ll show in photos.

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9. Have fun with it

This is your chance to play dress-up in the best way possible. There’s no “wrong” outfit for boudoir. Whether you go for a sultry vibe or a playful one, the goal is to celebrate you. So take a deep breath, grab that lace bodysuit, and remember—you’re going to look amazing.

If you’re still feeling unsure, send me a message or bring a pile of options to your session. We’ll sort it out together and make sure you feel like the absolute queen you are. Now go raid your closet and let’s make some magic! 💋